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Staying calm under the pressures of parenthood
No one becomes a parent to bring tranquility into their life. We all accepted the chaos when we signed the birth certificate, or technically around nine months before that.
The point is, kids stress us out, but there are ways to stay calm. Licensed therapist Cassidy Freitas says the trick to stopping parental rage isn't an elaborate self-care routine. It's finding refuge in "the margins," or the tiny in-between spaces of your day.
When you feel dysregulated, a simple physical cue like placing your hand on your chest and taking a deep breath with an extended exhale signals your body to reset. From there, treat your anger or guilt as a "data messenger." Ask yourself what is really driving the emotion, whether it's a fear of judgment or total burnout.
And what about when you inevitably lose your cool? Freitas has a guide for that, too.
Did You Hear
🥞 You won't find these pancakes at IHOP!
With cold & flu season coming up fast, some mothers are adding an unexpected ingredient to family recipes: their own breast milk. Moms on TikTok are baking cupcakes and pancakes with "liquid gold" to boost immunity against seasonal bugs. While supporters applaud the extra antibodies, experts warn that heating breast milk can actually destroy those beneficial nutrients. Read all about it.
👀 Common parenting habit might actually hurt your kids' confidence
Dr. Becky warns that prioritizing a child's short-term comfort actually leads to anxiety later. A new survey found 78% of parents saw kids changing their behavior out of fear of judgment. Teaming up with Carter's for The Childhood Confidence Project, Dr. Becky stresses that real confidence comes from letting kids face tough situations and build self-trust.
💸 Clever ways to prepare for unpaid parental leave
Taking unpaid parental leave after having a baby can strain any budget, but financial experts say a few strategic tweaks can make a huge difference, including requesting grocery gift cards instead of cute registry items. Read all 7 tips and tricks here.
🚨 Popular sound machine recalled
If you use a Love to Dream portable white noise machine, check your nursery. The brand recalled its Sleep Machine (model LTD-SM23) because the lithium-ion battery can overheat while charging, posing a fire and burn hazard. More info here.
🤨 To cap, or not to cap, that is the question
Wondering what on earth kids are talking about when they say, "no cap" or when they boast about aura points? Here are some of the most searched Gen Alpha slang terms explained.
Dose of Good
@pawsofhelp Reuniting with her flock.🥺💚 #CherishEveryMoment #HopeAndHealing #AnimalRescue #RescueStory
Here’s a Question
As we reported above, TikTok moms are baking breast milk into pancakes for flu season immunity…
Where do you stand on unconventional remedies for seasonal bugs?
Last week, we asked when you started taking your skincare routine seriously, and the majority of you answered, "30s or 40s", while "50s+" came in a close second. Only a handful said they started in their 20s.



